| Location | Southnorwood |
| Age | 76 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 10/05/1933 |
| Date of Death | 12/10/2009 |
| Visitors | 313 since 20/10/2009 |
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Bernie was a father to four daughters Jackie, Wendy, Elaine and Joanne and had six grandchildren, Siobhan, Josh, Harley, Hannah, Kacey and Harry and one great Grandaughter Bailey. He was Married to our Mum Selina, for 49 years and 7 months and sadly they never got to celebrate what would of been their golden anniversary next March. My Dad Bernie as he was known to all his friends and family was the best dad ever that a girl could ever wish for just like Mum is the best Mum and I'm sure my sister's would agree. We all have such lovely memories of our childhood and that all thanks to what excellent parents we have and now that we all have children ourselves hopefully, we can be as good parents as they were to us. They were and always are there for us, supporting everything we do and guiding us in the right direction to make the best decisions in our lives. Dad was a very friendly man and was extremely popular in his community and his club that he use to go to with Mum every Thursday. He got on with everybody that he met and was very close to all our Husbands and Partners Trevor, Adrian, Ian and David. Dad lived life to the full and would love going to Dances and social gatherings with Mum and all his Mates. Even when he was beginning to get poorly, he still would be so postive about everything and never ever would he let anything get him down. He was such a loving person and loved being surrounded by all his famaily and Friends. In his spare time he used to love watching WWF Wrestling, Boxing, Gardening and doing D.I.Y. I think that was the worse thing for Dad especially when he started getting poorly and his breathing was letting his down as he kept getting out breath and couldn't enjoy the things he loved doing. Dad also loved animals and could often be found in the garden feeding his Chickens, Budgies & Canaries and when I was little I use to help him with them. I have nothing but fond and loving memories of my Dad as I'm sure we all do. Even now when I think of him he makes me "Smile" as he always will. Unfortunately, the Cancer took a turn for the worse in the last 3 weeks. Dad was Admitted to Mayday Hospital on the evening of Sunday 20th September, after his body and face went yellow. He was then immediately Admitted and was diagnoised with having cancer of the liver. The doctors tried everything in their power to prolong his life even by putting a stent in that seemed to work for a bit. Dad was such a fighter but sadly after 3 weeks his battle unfortunatly, came to an end on Monday 12th October at 23:30pm. Age 76 5 months and 2 days still such a young age, he was sadly taken away from us all. Dad you are always in our thoughts and prayers 24/7. We miss you and love you loads always and forever. We have an empty gap in our hearts that can never be fullfilled. You were such a unique Husband, Dad, Grandad and Friend.
Lots Of Love From Your Loving Wife, Daughters, Grandchildren, Great Grandaughter , Partners & Husbands xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Hello Grandad, Its Harry here i only got to know you for one half years of my life. and it that short period i know what a special and lovely grandad you are. im three and hald years old today. after nursery mummy, nannie and myself went in garden and each of us had ared hellium heart balloon with either grandad, husband or dad on it we let them go so you can catch them in heaven :D :D :D
" Happy Grandad's Special Day"
love and miss you so much
mwah mwah mwah big hugs and cuddles always and forver
Hal
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So Sad :(
Dad, so sad that it have be gone now . for 2 year at 11.30pm tonightg. still can't beleive that your not here. look after zac, and bubba 3 for me oh and not forgeting Hal fish paxton. Hal is growing up to be such a lovely little boy hopefully it wont be too long before hes joined by a brothers or sisters. so prund of you miss you imensley always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2 years today
My Dearest Bernie , cant beleive it two years today that you were sadly taken from us. you hav then a gap in my heart that can never filled i miss ans love you more than anything . im so pround of you . i have lost my best friend, partner and husband. always in my heart forever. and always your darling wife Selina xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Very sorry to hear that Bernie is no longer with us, Holmewood Road was always lit up by his pemanent smile and happy chat. He was a lovely man with a lovely family. It was a privilage to know you, Mr Fritchley!
Gary Finnegan
Happy Father's Day Grandad Bernie :)
Dearest grandad Bernie.
Happy Granddad's Day Lots of Love Siobhan, Josh, Harley, Hannah, Kacey, Bailey & Hal xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Happy Birthday Grandad Bernie !!!
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday To You
Happy Birthday Dear Grandad Bernie
Happy Birthday to You .............................................................................................
Sang By Harry Alexander Southon
Age 3 Years & 1 Month Old
He has been singing this all day for you and blowing kisses to the sky for you, Zac, Bubba 3 and paxton his Gold Fish .
mwah love u millions, trillions and billions and so much more .
my grandad was very unique and absoultly priceless. unfortunatly he sadly passed away when i was 1 and half years old.
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78 of kisses from all of us to you !! Mwah
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from us to you mwah mwah mwah xxx
Happy Birtyhday Dearest Hubby
happy birthday my Darling Bern happy 78th birthday , so wish u were here today so we could celberate with all our children and grandchildren and there partners. love u millions always and forver your loving loyal wife Selina or bubs as you afffectionatly used to call me . xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Dance With My Father- By Luther Vandross
Something you should know about Dance With My Father Lyrics
Title: Luther Vandross - Dance With My Father lyrics
Artist: Luther Vandross Lyrics
Dance With My Father
Back when I was a child
Before life removed all the innocence
My father would lift me high
And dance with my mother and me and then
Spin me around till I fell asleep
Then up the stairs he would carry me
And I knew for sure
I was loved
If I could get another chance
Another walk, another dance with him
I’d play a song that would never, ever end
How I’d love, love, love to dance with my father again
Ooh, ooh
When I and my mother would disagree
To get my way I would run from her to him
He’d make me laugh just to comfort me, yeah, yeah
Then finally make me do just what my mama said
Later that night when I was asleep
He left a dollar under my sheet
Never dreamed that he
Would be gone from me
If I could steal one final glance
One final step, one final dance with him
I’d play a song that would never, ever end
‘Cause I’d love, love, love to dance with my father
again
Sometimes I’d listen outside her door
And I’d hear her, mama cryin’ for him
I pray for her even more than me
I pray for her even more than me
I know I’m prayin’ for much too much
But could You send back the only man she loved
I know You don’t do it usually
But Lord, she’s dyin’ to dance with my father again
Every night I fall asleep
And this is all I ever dream
Never Forget You - By The Noisettes
YouWatcha drinking?
Rum or whiskey?
Now won'tcha have a
Double with me?
I'm sorry I'm a little late
I got your message by the way
I'm calling in sick today
So let's go out for old time's sake
I'll never forget you
They said we'd never make it
My sweet joy
Always remember me
We were mysterious
And you were always wearing black
I was so serious
You know my boyfriend's mother
Nearly had a heart attack
I'm sorry I'm a little late
You know the stripes on a tiger
Are hard to change
I know this world feels
Like an empty stage
I wouldn't change a thing
So glad you're back again
I'll never forget you
They said we'd never make it
My sweet joy
Watcha drinking?
Rum or whiskey?
Now won'tcha have a
Double with me?
I'm sorry I'm a little late
I got your message by the way
I'm calling in sick today
So let's go out for old time's sake
I'll never forget you
They said we'd never make it
My sweet joy
Always remember me
We were mysterious
And you were always wearing black
I was so serious
You know my boyfriend's mother
Nearly had a heart attack
I'm sorry I'm a little late
You know the stripes on a tiger
Are hard to change
I know this world feels
Like an empty stage
I wouldn't change a thing
So glad you're back again
I'll never forget you
They said we'd never make it
My sweet joy
Always remember me
I'll never forget you
At times we couldn't shake it
You're my joy
Always remember me
We just got swallowed up
You know I didn't forget you
We just got swallowed up
Well, we just got swallowed up
But you love that I didn't forget you
We just got swallowed up
By the whole damn world
Watcha thinking?
Did you miss me?
I borrowed your silver boots
Now if you'd just let me
Give them back to you
I'll never forget you
They said we'd never make it
My sweet joy
Always remember me
I'll never forget you
Although at times we couldn't shake it
You're my joy
Always remember me
Don't you know that you're my joy
Always remember me
Don't you know that you're my joy
Always remember me

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